01380cam a2200265 4500 130173944 TxAuBib 20100208120000.0 090626s2010||||||||||||||||||||||||eng|u 2009026298 9781402765483 1402765487 (OCoLC)311760114 DLC DLC TxAuBib Hoistad, Jan. Romance rehab [ANF] : 10 steps to rescue your relationship / by Jan Hoistad. New York, NY : Sterling Pub., 2010. p. cm. Includes bibliographical references and index. Step 1: increase the positive between you -- Step 2: talk regularly and take turns listening -- Step 3: deepen your individuality to strengthen your relationship -- Step 4: discover the depth of your commitment -- Step 5: address any issue together whether it's yours, mine, or ours -- Step 6: understand how you manage conflict -- Step 7: put your issues on the table so they don't come between you -- Step 8: turn problems into mutual goals and work toward them together -- Step 9: practice the art of heartfelt listening -- Step 10: resolve conflict and create new options together. 20100208. Couples therapy. Marital psychotherapy. TXGPL